
Welcome to the June 2009 Edition of the Laconneau
Monthly Newsletter.
IN THIS ISSUE
• Book of the Month
• Political Action Forum
• Laconneau Autumn Festival
• Sentier de la Magdalene
• Regional News
• Regional Calendars
• Contact Laconneau
BOOK OF THE MONTH

The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq
by Helen Benedict
In The Lonely Soldier, Helen Benedict recounts the stories of women who have fought in the war in Iraq. She interviewed forty veterans, but focused on the stories of five specific women. Benedict does a masterful job of depicting the deep-seated misogyny that runs rampant in the military, the results of which are degradation and sexual persecution of women by their so-called “comrades in arms.” The book details a number of injustices which affect the troops in Iraq. It will give you an understanding of the experience of all the troops who serve in Iraq, but the main focus is on the experience of the female troops in particular. There’s much to be disturbed by in this publication. In particular, the sexual
abuse and assault suffered by women soldiers is both shocking and appalling. It’s unconscionable that women who volunteer to serve their country in the armed forces should be the victims of hatred, resentment and sexual violence from those with whom they serve based solely on the fact that they are women. Benedict ends the book with suggestions on how to overcome the deep-rooted problems inherent in the current system.
POLITICAL ACTION FORUM
The War Against Women
The United States is at war, and the nation has rallied over the last eight years to the cry to “support our troops”. And yet this war has become a war against a section of those very troops the nation calls to support; a war of horrendous violence and abuse against those women in the military who have chosen to serve and defend their country; a war waged by their fellow soldiers with the collusion and sometimes the participation of the very officers who are meant to uphold and defend those women’s rights and the rights of all soldiers serving under their command. There is a pervasive culture of misogyny in our military. Sexual violence is rampant. It begins during recruiting, continues during boot camp and throughout the years of active service. Women are discriminated against, assaulted and then threatened and intimidated to discourage them from reporting assaults. Even after discharge, it is difficult for women who have been assaulted to receive the help they need. What is the magnitude of the problem? What are the factors that contribute to situation? What can be done to effect change?
The individual stories and statistics are horrifying.
- A female military recruit was pinned down at knifepoint and repeatedly raped in her own barracks by fellow soldiers.
- Another female soldier was raped by a military physician during a routine gynecological exam.
- Another soldier was raped by her commanding officer while serving in a war zone.
These are not isolated incidents. The statistics are shocking.
- The numbers provided by the Department of Defense (DoD) regarding sexual assault are dramatically lower than the numbers provided by other third party independent sources.
- The numbers reported by the DoD concerning the incidence of the rape of women during military service are lower than those provided by other sources, yet even those numbers show the rate of rape to be around 30 percent (1).
- Surprisingly, the Pentagon admits that 80 per cent of assaults are not reported, which indicates that the problem is far greater than the DoD statistics reveal (2).
In addition to the problem of rape itself, there is a serious problem with women who report rape finding justice within the military system. Only 8 percent of reported sexual assaults, which were investigated during 2007, were referred to courts martial. In contrast, forty percent of those arrested for sexual assault in the civilian world are prosecuted (3). In nearly half of the cases of sexual assault which were investigated in the military, no action was taken by the chain of command. In the cases where action was taken, in the majority of instances, the offenders were given administrative or nonjudicial punishment, consisting of anything from a demotion to a transfer or a letter of admonishment. Shockingly, the Department of Defense statistics reveal that 84-85 percent of soldiers convicted of rape or sexual assault are honorably discharged from the military when their term of service ends. That statistic makes a very strong statement which epitomizes the attitude taken in the military concerning sexual crimes against women (4).
Women who served in Iraq experienced the stress of potential sexual assault on a daily basis. Representative Jane Harman (D-Calif.) testified in July 2008, “Women serving in the U.S. military are more likely to be raped by a fellow soldier than killed by enemy fire in Iraq” (5). Many of these women were ordered not to go outside at night without a female companion for fear of assault from their fellow soldiers (6). Since only one in ten soldiers is female and since some platoons only have one female soldier, this is problematic. Women serving in Iraq were warned against going to the latrines alone at night. Some of them cut the tops off water bottles and peed in them at night rather than go to the latrines. Some carried knives in order to protect themselves from other soldiers. Others limited their fluid consumption in order avoid going to the latrines and, thus, to protect themselves from sexual assault. As a result, women soldiers in Iraq experienced a high incidence of urinary tract infections and some women died as a result of dehydration (7).
Many women never report being sexually assaulted. April Fitzsimmons, who was the victim of rape during her military career, said, “When victims come forward, they are ostracized, doubted, and isolated from their communities. Many of the perpetrators are officers who use their ranks to coerce women to sleep with them. It’s a closely interwoven community, so the perpetrators are safe within the system and can fearlessly move freely amongst their victims” (8). Some women don’t report assaults for fear of being disbelieved. In addition, the likelihood of anonymity for a woman who reports an assault is slim or none. The probability of a woman who has been assaulted having to continue to interact with her
attacker is very high. Military culture does not look kindly on a soldier who is a whistleblower, much less when that whistleblower is female. Those who report sexual assault are likely to face ongoing persecution by their assailants and punishment by their commanders. Commanders don’t want their units to look bad; therefore, they often fail to take action concerning complaints of sexual assault.
There are a number of factors, which contribute to the culture, which leads to such abuse of women in the military. First, there’s an innate hostility towards women in the armed services, the kind of hostility women meet whenever they make inroads into territory men perceive as theirs. Second, there’s the pervasive idea that men need a sexual outlet and that women soldiers are the most convenient one. There is a commonly held belief in the military that rape is a result of men’s pent up and unexpressed lust. The military blames women for provoking rape and lets rapists off the hook. Never mind that it has been shown that rape is more about power and domination rather than about satisfying lust. Third, many
male recruits enlist to escape abusive families, and childhood abuse often turns men into adult abusers (9). Fourth, the quality of recruits entering the armed services is declining. Both the Army and the Marine Corps have issued “moral waivers” which allow them to enlist personnel who have had convictions for rape and sexual assault (10). Finally, as conveyed above, there are few or very minor
consequences for sexual molestation in the military. Given all these factors, it’s no wonder that women are regularly assaulted.
The aftereffects of sexual abuse are far reaching. Sexual violence by a fellow soldier is four times to nine times more likely to cause PTSD than combat alone, depending on which study is quoted (11). To add insult to injury, those who seek counseling to deal with the effects of their abuse are perceived to be weak and sometimes find that their military careers are negatively effected as a consequence of seeking help (12). If women veterans seek help after being discharged from the military, the VA has few resources to assist those women who are dealing with the combined effects of combat trauma and sexual violence (4). Most of the VA’s services are tailored to meet the needs of male veterans.Women’s needs differ from those of men. They have distinct PTSD symptoms and need treatment tailored to their needs (13).
Take Action
All of this adds up to an untenable situation for women during and after their military careers. It is incumbent upon us to see to it that the problems faced by women soldiers and women veterans are addressed. Become informed on these issues. Read The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq, by Helen Benedict. Search the internet for information. Then take action. Inform
yourself about the workings of both the House Committee on Veterans’ Affairs at: http://veterans.house.gov/ and the Senate Committee on Veterans’ Affairs at: http://veterans.senate.gov/. Contact the members of these committees, share your outrage with them and encourage them to move quickly to rectify these injustices. Support the bills currently before Congress addressing the issues of
women in the military. One bill is H.R.840, the Military Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Act. The other is H.R. 1211, the Women Veteran’s Health Care Improvement Act. Contact your Senators and Congressmen and encourage them to support these bills. To track the progress of these bills, please access the following website: govtrack.us . Contact President Obama and encourage him, as Commander in Chief of the Armed Forces of the United States of America, to respond to the needs of women soldiers and women veterans. Contact Ms. Obama and request her support.
Several women veterans have organized to provide support for each other and for women currently on active duty. Their organization is called the Service Women Action Network, or SWAN. This organization states as its mission: “SWAN works to improve the welfare of current U.S. Servicewomen and to assist all women veterans. SWAN offers personal support and guidance from fellow women
veterans, providing legal and counseling services from military law experts and caseworkers, recommending sound policy reform to government officials and educating the public about service women’s issues through various media outlets” (14). Join SWAN and ask to be put on their mailing list. Stay informed about the work they are doing to support military women, both active duty and retired.
Are you shocked and appalled by what you’ve just read? Do something about it. As long as we remain silent, we are in collusion with those who perpetrate the abuse. Take the actions outlined above. Talk to people you know about these issues and encourage them to take action, as well. See to it that this information is widely disseminated. Draw a line in the sand and stand on it. You will find others standing beside you.
(1) Harman Introduces Bipartisan Bill to Halt Rape and Sexual Assault in the Military. July 29, 2008, from
http://www.house.gov/list/press/ca36_harman/July29_MST.sht
(2) Culture of Unpunished Sexual Assault In U.S. Military. July 29, 2008, from
http://dissidentvoice.org/2009/05/culture-of-unpunished-sexual-assault-in-us-military/
(3) Harman Introduces Bipartisan Bill to Halt Rape and Sexual Assault in the Military. July 29, 2008, from
http://www.house.gov/list/press/ca36_harman/July29_MST.sht
(4) Culture of Unpunished Sexual Assault In U.S. Military. July 29, 2008, from
http://dissidentvoice.org/2009/05/culture-of-unpunished-sexual-assault-in-us-military/
(5) Ibid.
(6) Benedict, Helen. (2009). The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq. Boston, MA: Beacon Press, Boston.
(7) The Rape, Assault and Harassment of Women in the Military. April 14, 2007, from http://dissidentvoice.org/Apr07/Zeese14.htm
(8) Harman Introduces Bipartisan Bill to Halt Rape and Sexual Assault in the Military. July 29, 2008, from
http://www.house.gov/list/press/ca36_harman/July29_MST.sht
(9) Benedict, Helen. (2009). The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq. Boston, MA: Beacon Press, Boston.
(10) The Rape, Assault and Harassment of Women in the Military. April 14, 2007, from http://dissidentvoice.org/Apr07/Zeese14.htm
(11) Benedict, Helen. (2009). The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq. Boston, MA: Beacon Press, Boston.
(12) Culture of Unpunished Sexual Assault In U.S. Military. July 29, 2008, from
http://dissidentvoice.org/2009/05/culture-of-unpunished-sexual-assault-in-us-military/
(13) Benedict, Helen. (2009). The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq. Boston, MA: Beacon Press, Boston.
(14) Service Women’s Action Network, from
http://www.servicewomen.org/?page_id=
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LACONNEAU AUTUMN FESTIVAL

Laconneau Autumn Festival
Friday October 30, - Sunday November 1, 2009
Artemis House - Greenville, NC
In the Tradition of Laconneau, the Autumn Festival is a rich and deeply meaningful time. Through this festival, we remember the One we serve as well as our sisters throughout the ages whose courage and self-sacrifice have allowed us to participate in this rich inheritance. We remember them not in sorrow but in joy, for this is the time of the inward journey, the giving up of the old life in the sure knowledge of rebirth. It is a time when we remember with hope the ancient prophecy that forms the heart of our Tradition: “Al cap dels sept cent ans reverdajara lo laurel.”
This year, we will continue to hold the Autumn Festival in the old way and in full accord with the principles of our Tradition. Come join us in Greenville, North Carolina for this wonderful weekend of comradeship, workshops, feminine spirituality and festivities. Lend your voice to the power and love of sisters such as yourself who feel a burning need to see change in this world.
The fee for the festival is $275.00. Please also budget for $15.00 per day to cover lunches and other expenses. Housing is available in the homes of the Greenville sisters and in hotels in the area. Please contact Elaine at carolinas@laconneau.org for more details.
for more Information on the Autumn Festival:http://www.laconneau.org/fallfestival1.html
SENTIER DE LA MAGDALENE

Sentier de la Magdalene
Friday, September 25 – Saturday, October 3, 2009
A Pilgrimage to Southern France
This fall, for the first time, Laconneau will be offering a combination of the Magdalene Pilgrimage and the Sentier des Cathares. We hope this will make the trip both practical and affordable. The trip will include mountain hiking in the Languedoc. Details of the trip will follow in an upcoming announcement.
REGIONAL NEWS

Laconneau Scholarship Fund
The Laconneau scholarship fund has been established to assist women who are
unable to afford the cost of classes. If you are in need of a scholarship, please
contact your local Laconneau coordinator.
If you would like to make a donation to the scholarship fund, please make your check out to Alex Guyol and send it to P.O. Box 261, Kingston, NJ 08528. If you have questions, please email Alex at alex@laconneau.org.
France News
Laconneau is offering the Sentier de la Magdalene this fall from Friday, September 25 to Saturday, October 3, 2009.
News from the Carolinas
For the past two months, the Greenville Circle has been having an evening meditation followed by dinner and discussions in addition to the usual Sunday afternoon meditations. The next evening meditation will take place on Thursday, June 18 at 6:00PM. The topic will be What is sisterhood.
The Greenville Circle will be holding a yard sale on Saturday, June 6 at Artemis House. Donations will be accepted within one week of the sale. Feel free to join us and lend a hand in organizing the items beforehand and in helping on the day of the sale. All proceeds will go to the Laconneau Scholarship Fund.
Georgia News
A Level 1 Class will be taught at 10:00AM on Saturday, June 6th, at Central Congregational United Church of Christ in Atlanta. Please note the location for this class has been changed.
A Level 1 Class will also be taught at 10:00AM on Sunday, June 7th, at Cedar Hill Enrichment Center in Gainesville, GA.
This summer the Gainesville meditation group will meet on the 3rd Tuesday evening of the month at 6:00PM. The next meeting date will be Tuesday, June 16th. There will be dinner and discussion following meditation. Over the summer, there will be two series of discussions topics. The first series will be on how to “go green” in a variety of aspects in our lives. The second series will be on how to become politically involved in your community.
Meditations are held on an ongoing basis in Decatur, Marietta and Gainesville. Women’s Circles are also regularly held in Gainesville. Please check the Georgia calendar for specific times and dates.
The Georgia Circle continues to welcome all women who desire to work together to heal our communities, our country and our world.
Please contact Lynn at Georgia@laconneau.org for more information.
Pennsylvania News
Following the examples of our sisters who have gone before us and who have stood up for the rights of those without a voice, the Philadelphia circle is beginning to develop our voice within local politics. Beginning with our own education on local issues and government, and moving into planning and
organizing, the women of the Philadelphia circle will begin to translate our growing awareness into political action. If we do not take responsibility for our city, we are allowing the downward trend to continue, unstopped and unchanged.
Inez Milholland gave her life so that American women could have a vote and a voice within our society. We believe it’s time to speak through our actions and put her work and the work of her sisters to good use.
With the intention of educating ourselves about the issues in the United States, our June film screening will be When the Levees Broke, to which all women are invited.
As always, we welcome all women to our classes, meditations, dinners, and film screenings as we continue to build a strong foundation for this community of women. Nothing will change unless women change the way we see ourselves. A strong foundation within our community can help form the basis of that change within each woman.
Washington, DC News
The Washington Circle welcomes all women to its activities. On Sunday, June 28, the circle will host a Level I Beginner’s Class.
On June 5 at 6:30PM, there will be a screening of Amazing Grace. This film recounts the story of 18th century British abolitionist William Wilberforce’s twenty-year fight to abolish the British slave trade and demonstrates that one person’s efforts can have far reaching effects and bring about significant change in the world.
Continuing education is a vital component of our lives. In order to keep up to date with the Laconneau books of the month, we will be holding informal book discussions in neighborhood cafes at the end of each month and hope that women will drop in for an hour or so. The Washington, DC venue will be Politics and Prose. Other convenient venues in Virginia and Maryland are being investigated. Details will be forthcoming in the next newsletter.
FRANCE: Upcoming Events

Friday, September 25 to Saturday, October 3, 2009
Sentier de la Magdalene
Southern France
GEORGIA: June Events

Monday June 1, 2009
Meditation 6:30PM
Marietta, GA
Wednesday June 3, 2009
Meditation 6:30PM
North Decatur, GA
Friday June 5, 2009
Women’s Circle 8:30PM
Gainesville, GA,
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Saturday June 6, 2009
Level I Beginner’s Course 10:ooAM
Atlanta, GA
Sunday June 7, 2009
Level I Beginner’s Course 10:ooAM
Gainesville, GA
Monday June 8, 2009
Meditation 6:30PM
Marietta, GA
Sunday June 14, 2009
Meditation 5:30PM
East Decatur, GA
Monday June 15, 2009
Meditation 6:30PM
Marietta, GA
Tuesday June 16, 2009
Meditation, Dinner, & Discussion 6:00PM
Going Green
Gainesville, GA
Monday June 22, 2009
Women’s Circle 8:30PM
Gainesville, GA,
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Atlanta Calendar Online:
http://www.laconneau.com/CalendarAtlantaGA.html
Atlanta Region Coordinator: Lynn - georgia@laconneau.org
NORTH CAROLINA: June Events

GREENVILLE, NC
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Artemis House
Greenville, NC
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Friday, June 12, 2009
Young Women’s Dinner & Discussion 6:30PM
Sisterhood
Greenville, NC
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Meditation, Dinner & Discussion 6:30PM
Artemis House
Greenville, NC
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Artemis House
Greenville, NC
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Meditation 12:00PM
Artemis House
Greenville, NC
ASHEVILLE, NC
Saturday, June 21, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Brevard, NC
For students who have completed the Level I Course
North Carolina Calendar Online:
http://www.laconneau.com/CalendarGreenvilleNC.html
Carolinas Region Coordinator: Elaine – carolinas@laconneau.org
PENNSYLVANIA: June Events

Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Level I Beginner’s Course (Continued) 7:00PM
Philadelphia, PA
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Philadelphia, PA
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Dinner & Discussion 7:30PM
Philadelphia, PA
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Film Screening 7:30PM
When the Levees Broke
Philadelphia, PA
Monday, June 22, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Philadelphia, PA
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Philadelphia Calendar Online:
http://www.laconneau.com/CalendarPhiladelphiaPA.html
Philadelphia Region Coordinator: Anna - Pennsylvania@laconneau.org
WASHINGTON, DC: June Events

Friday, June 5, 2009
Film Screening & Dinner 6:30PM
Amazing Grace
Washington, DC
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Washington, DC
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Meditation & Afternoon Tea 3:30PM
Washington, DC
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Women’s Circle 9:30PM
Washington, DC
For students who have completed the Level I Course
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Level I Beginner’s Course 10:00AM
Washington, DC
Washington, DC Calendar Online:
http://www.laconneau.com/CalendarWashingtonDC.html
Washington,DC Region Coordinator: Lorely - dc@laconneau.org
CONTACT LACONNEAU
Please contact your coordinator with questions or updated regional information.
In France: Jehanne - jehanne@laconneau.org
In California:Alex - alex@laconneau.org
In the Carolinas: Elaine - carolinas@laconneau.org
In Georgia: Lynn - georgia@laconneau.org
In Pennsylvania: Anna - pennsylvania@laconneau.org
In Washington, DC: Lorely - dc@laconneau.org
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